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Age 13; Kazakstan, Karaganda Happiness is a
philosophical concept, and every family has its own
HAPPINESS. Happiness in our family was SASHENKA.
Sasha was borne on July 16th, 1989, in the city of
Karaganda, in Kazakhstan.
We awaited her birth with such impatience. We were
filled with a feeling of happiness and pride, which
comes giving birth to a new person on Earth. A new time
began in our family, the time of Sashenka's growth and
maturation.
We were joyful at her first little tooth, her first baby
steps, and her first word. A feeling of pride enveloped
us when Sasha, at 3 years of age, learned the alphabet
and read her first words.
From an early age she was a life-loving and cheerful
child. Everything interested her. First, she loved
having books endlessly read to her, and then she began
to read to herself. She especially loved to read books
on history, or about great journeys. Thus inspired,
Sasha would tell all about countries and their cities,
about museums, music that she loved, theater, and
painting. It was always interesting to discuss her new
knowledge with her. Through Sasha's prism of perception,
everything known became so bright, so unforgettable, and
so new. We delighted in it all with her.
Sasha wrote stories, poems, and thought up games. Her
great passion was the computer.
Sasha’s appearance was that of a tender, frail little
girl, but she adored bicycle riding, roller skating, and
skateboarding. Riding bikes with adults, she traveled
about the entire city. She entertained everyone on the
ride with her love of nature, and she loved riding to
our dacha. And, of course, she loved animals, especially
cats, dogs, and horses.
But the most surprising love that Sasha had was for
people. Even at only 13 years of age, she already had a
strong, winning personality, which was never
indifferent, and knew when to bear responsibility for
others. Her classmates said: "Sasha had lots of friends,
and she never quarreled with anyone, ever. We called her
the 'lawyer', because she’d solve not just our class
conflicts, but other classes, and we followed her
advice, and even her decisions. She knew how to solve
any problem. Because of this, she was greatly respected
in the school."
And certainly, one cannot fail to speak about her love
for her parents and friends. Somehow, she loved them
each their own way. She was so tender, and in this so
very, very strong. We looked on her as everyone's child,
and friend. She would find a warm word for everyone, and
wanted to care for all of us all in our old age. We were
very happy with her.
We have now been deprived of our happiness. They took
away our Sasha. Now all that remains is the pain of
loss, and the MEMORY of this amazingly bright, thirteen
year old girl.
Who will answer for this??
No one wants to answer! |